Sunday, March 9, 2014

Anger Increases the Risk of Heart Attack 5X

A new Harvard study shows that angry outbursts may increase the risk of a heart attack by 5 times! The risk continues for up to two hours after the incident, whether the anger is expressed or not. The study also concluded that anger amped up the risk for a stroke 3 fold.

My years of work with BreakOut students convinces me that most anger is belief-driven, not the natural, healthy fight or flight response that maximizes our chances to survive. Ironic, isn't it, that the same emotion can protect us or destroy us?

When someone (and everyone around him/her) suffers from chronic anger, they usually operate from self-defeating beliefs such as:

  • If I weren't angry, I wouldn't stand up for myself
  • IT makes me angry; outside forces cause my anger
  • Anybody would be mad about this... (fill in the blank)
  • It's a knee-jerk reaction beyond my control

Efforts to override belief-driven anger do not work very well. You have to find the beliefs that fuel it. Then you can drain the tank by removing them.

Think of all of the people taking drugs to prevent heart attacks and strokes, while risking  heart attacks and strokes every day by exploding (blood vessels literally) in anger.

Two resources to break out from anger:

"Emotional Options: A Handbook for Happiness" explains how to find the beliefs that fuel anger (and other unwelcome emotions) and how to drain the tank by disproving them. These beliefs are unique. Each of us has to find our own. Otherwise knowing it's bad for your health may only compound the problem.
Emotional Options: http://mandyevans.com/archives/emotional-options/

"How to Be Happy: Exercise Your Emotional Options" On Thursday, March 27th at 2:00PM PDT, I will discuss some ideas to help you begin to exercise your emotional options. Check out my free 10 Big Ideas + join us live here:  http://bit.ly/1fLE5GP .

This live streaming video class will cover lots of ways to breakout from limiting beliefs that keep us stuck in painful, unhealthy emotions.

Cheering you on to happiness and health!

Friday, March 7, 2014

How to Be Happy NOW!

How to Be Happy: Exercise Your Emotional Options

Happiness is the end goal of all of our striving, yet we all know people who have achieved great success and still aren't happy. There's got to be more to it. What if you could be happier right now, even before you fix all of the things that seem wrong with your life or our world? Here are some ideas to help you begin to exercise your emotional options today. This class is dedicated to your happiness. 
This is my second course with entheos. I'm thrilled to share it with you. The 10 Big Ideas are FREE and so is the live class, March 27 at 2:00 PDT -- that's Pacific Daylight Time
Check out my Top 10 Big Ideas here
 http://bit.ly/1fLE5GP